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I’m gonna be 25 years old next month, and I’ve learned some important lessons in my 25 years. I’m writing this article to mark this milestone to remind my future self not to repeat these mistakes, and also to help anyone else who can benefit from it.
1) Don’t worry you’ll fall in love again
Keep falling in love, you don’t know on some fine day, You might get stuck. Never leave an opportunity to tell someone that you love them. Most people don’t know how to do it and those who know don’t know how to express it. If you see beauty in others don’t wait for the world to agree. Things have a miraculous way of working out trust that. “Love cost us all we are and will be and yet it is only love which sets us free”
2) Give more to get more
3) Live your life with extreme audacity
“Good or bad whatever happens in your life is solely your responsibility” — I came across this in a book a few years ago and I completely agree with the statement. Unless you start living your life with extreme audacity you will always have some regrets.
4) Fail more
I believe that everyone has to fail N number of times and that N is fixed. So, Finish this N as fast as you can. Not failing from time to time is the only way you can lose.
5) Never lose hope
Some day on some fine day when you get stuck for long enough things will start falling in place. There is a thin line between never losing hope and stop trying.
“Remember. Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no good thing ever dies.” — Andy Dufresne, Shawshank Redemption.
6) Power of one more
The power of one more. I can’t emphasise this enough. Every interview I cracked is the result of one more. All the small wins I have had in my life are the results of one more. One more rep, one more interview, falling in love one more time, trusting a friend one more time. Giving one more try when you lose all the hope is all that matters.
“Please, Lord. Help me get one more. Help me get one more.” ~ Desmond Doss; Hacksaw Ridge
7) Don’t take life too seriously
It’s okay no matter what you do, It’s okay if you don’t want to dance, It’s okay if you are surrounded by people who all have opinions on something and you don’t want to say anything, It’s okay to skip parties, It’s okay to stay alone, It’s okay if you don’t want to smoke when everyone else does. No matter how you are or what you do, you’re okay.
8) Don’t ignore anxiety
Make sure you confront situations and don’t run away, because when you return, the situation will remain the same, but you will become weaker. Don’t ignore your anxiety, as it grows stronger with time and serves as a signal from your body that you’re in the wrong place. Feeling anxious? Go for a run; Clean your room; Talk to loved ones; Get off social media. Do anything that makes you feel satisfied.
9) Dreams do come true
Dreams do come true and that is it; The Only drawback here is that your dreams bind you. Believe me, when I say they come true I don’t remember anything that 15-year-old me has wished for and not gotten it. I wanted to play Nationals in cricket when I was 15 years old and I did it at 18 and it was exactly what I pictured a few years back. Make sure what you wish for because you are going to get this one day. I don’t think there’s anything I dreamt of and never gotten it.
10) Mental health > Sleep > Workouts > Everything else
11) One goal at a time; Move forward with imperfections
If I could revisit the past and convey just one message to my 20-year-old self, it would be to prioritise one thing at a time. I am an average chess player, engineer, sportsperson, and guitarist — a jack of all trades and master of none. This is a pattern I aim to leave behind, choosing to focus on one pursuit at a time.
12) Stay humble; If someday you have to give back everything you owe this world money will come at last.
13) Let them go; They always come back.
14) Be a good friend or not at all.
15) About Love
People say there’s no science when two people fall in love; it just happens. Love as much as you can, as we have discussed in the 2nd point, it will come back, but make sure the one you love has earned it; otherwise, you’ll feel exhausted. Love has a plan for each and every one of us, or maybe not, and that should be fine.
You’re prone to do the same things which has happened to you. If you have been loved a lot you’ll love a lot. If you have been bullied a lot there’s a very high tendency you’ll bully. Some way or other that energy has to get out.
Knowing how to love is a gift embrace it, you cannot save people you can only love them.
“I guess when you’re young, you just believe there’ll be many people with whom you’ll connect with. Later in life, you realise it only happens a few times.”― Celine
16) Let people take their own time to accept you
In 2023, I’ve worked in 3 different companies. Every time I join a new company, people don’t like me at first, they stare all the time, then gradually start accepting and liking me, and in no time we’re friends. All I want to say is that people take time to accept, and it’s important to let them take their time; they’ll come around. Let people’s aura settle before making a move.
“Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” — Charles R. Swindoll.
17) Always over-communicate
My previous manager taught me the importance of over-communicating, whether in work or personal life. Avoid making assumptions. When confused at work, communicate and resolve rather than assuming. If you have an issue with someone close to you, communicate instead of keeping it inside. Many problems can be solved just by communicating.
18) Say No more often; We only have certain amount of energy for the day make sure it never gets wasted on the wrong people or things.
19) Don’t try to change people’s perspective of the world let them be the hero of their own world.
20) Heartbreaks
Heartbreaks are the worst and best thing at the same time. Consciously break your thoughts if something is disturbing you, there is no other way around and you must be wondering Where is all that love supposed to go when someone goe
s away, maybe next time give it to yourself.
“Don’t you dare settle for fine, You should feel like you’ve been struck by lightning.”- Ted Lasso..
JaiHind.. JaiBharat..
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